that's how life has felt these last two weeks. I had to squeeze in a dentist appointment for another cracked tooth. Seriously what is wrong with my teeth. I've seen our dentist almost every 6 weeks this year. UGH! Oh well it was a quick and easy fix and he didn't even have to numb me (which by the way he was impressed with because I didn't even flinch and I think he realized how much pain I must have been in earlier that year because that did not bother me).
The boys had a Lego Derby for their activity days on Wednesday, October 23rd. I kept reminding them to work on their cars but they weren't too worried. Finally that night they were scrambling to finalize things and Steve even setup a mock track to try them on before they went over to the church. Marcus managed to win his first couple of races which was exciting for him. Andrew ended up finishing above him but he had tougher competition in his races. Overall they had fun and that's all that matters.
Thursday, October 22nd. Lila had night of dance down in Cottonwood Heights. I was helping with the boys Act 1 run through so I couldn't go down with her. I was very grateful for a Mom who was willing to drive a group of girls down to the event and sad I wouldn't be there to see her dance. She had fun. Andrew also had his first volleyball game that evening. It was fun to watch and a little rough. There wasn't really much playing. It is a combined boys girls 4th and 5th grade so Andrew is on the older side and the only boy on his team. His friend Wes signed up and we were totally bummed they did not get on the same team we thought maybe because each team would only have one boy but there were teams with 3 boys. . .weird. Anyway, Andrew was one of the few to get his serves over and to return a serve back over the net. There was a lot of cheering from the whole crowd when there was more than one hit. Marcus's football coach from last year came up and said Hi to Marcus and we realized his daughter is on Andrew's team so that was a fun connection.
Friday, October 23rd we decided to have a family movie night and watched Coco. The boys hadn't seen it since they were really little so it was like a whole new movie for them and we all really enjoyed the evening. I bought Mexican Flavored popcorn and thought it would be appropriate for this movie but it did not taste great which reminded us of the time in Cancun when we went to the store and found a whole aisle full of microwave popcorn and they had the best microwave caramel corn. We also tried several other flavors. There was one that was really weird and nobody would eat except my Dad. Grandpa just kept eating it and then later that night he complained his stomach was hurting. 😂 We called to tell them that we were saving the rest of the popcorn for him.
Saturday, October 24th, Ellie was coming home to get her bike fixed by the Phelps. They offered some parts off of Porter's old bike which would be an upgrade for her. So she went for it. We picked her up from the train then she drove over to their house while we took the boys to the park and played some pickleball. We had a rough week practicing instruments so I was really trying to get Andrew motivated to practice his orchestra pieces and he was really struggling. So we sent Steve and Marcus to his basketball game without us. Andrew finally managed to finish up his practicing so we made it up to the game in time for the 2nd half. The team they played only had 2 players show up so we gave them 3 of our players and everyone played the whole time. Marcus did pretty good for his first game. It was enjoyable to watch. They don't keep score and don't really call too much because they are still learning. Our neighbor friend was reffing the game which was fun too.
I then took the boys to Fiiz to get a Halloween inspired drink which was their reward for getting their instruments practiced. Then we smoked pizzas including Jack-O-Lanter ones.
Ellie worked on her ballot, her first time voting and it's a big election. And then showed us her upgraded bike before we took her back to the train so she could be back in time for work.
Then we took off to hike Farmington Creek trail. It is the hike the boys and I did last year while Steve was in Malaysia and the fall colors were amazing. This fall has been so warm the leaves didn't quite change as drastically and we were a little later but it was still a fun hike and a nice way to spend the afternoon.
Marcus was hot and decided to get his hat wet in the creek to cool off. And of course the boys had to climb the rope out from the waterfall. The first time we hiked it years ago that rope was the only way down to the waterfall but now they have added a nice switchback trail.
Then Steve pulled out the new pressure sprayer he bought so he can try to get more mud off of the van, spray off the bat mess one last time, and clean out the garbage can. He was in the middle of all of that when I needed to take Andrew to his basketball game. I thought he would meet us at half time like we did with Marcus's game but he forgot Andrew's games are at a farther away school so by the time he was going to head over there was only 8 minutes left in the game and he wouldn't have made it. Then the game went into over time. 😱 Our boys had a rough night. Andrew made a couple of silly mistakes and then he had a great rebound and took a shot and made it but he never really got mentally back in the game. I talked with him about learning how to do a mental reset. It was a rough conversation one I'm sure we'll have again. Anyway, it was a physical game and they practice at a different gym which has a little different setup so I noticed several times they were called out of bounds one one side because they are used to the curtain being really close to the out of bounds. Made me wish their games were as simple as Marcus's. 😂
Sunday was a long day for me. The boys and I sang in church with our ward choir so we had to be to church early. Then we had the primary program practice where Andrew is playing his violin and both the boys have a small part so we were practicing that. Then right after church I had a meeting for Stake Women's Conference. I can't believe I'm going to say this here but they have asked me to chair this big event and I've been working on things with the Stake Relief Society Presidency. Nobody really knows I'm doing it because it is an assignment and not a calling. As I was inviting all of the committee members to the meeting and signing my name as Women's Conference Chair, I had a Wizard of Oz moment like the curtain was being pulled back and now everyone would know how unqualified I am to really be running the show. I had a little panic attack and the spirit whispered to me "Britney, you are not running the show, I am." It is true. I have an amazing cochair who is the calm to my crazy and we have felt the spirit and goosebump moments as we have discussed and planned. Steve was a real trooper helping me make copies and get refreshments ready during the primary program practice. Grateful the day went well and I think the committees had a good first meeting and I didn't even get a headache, tender mercy.
The week of Halloween arrived and I knew it would be crazy. On top of that we have a little cold going around. It started with Steve. . .Well I had a little something the weekend of camping. I thought it was allergies from the dust in the tiny home and camping fun but then when Steve go sick I thought maybe I shared it with him but then I got what he had so camping was probably allergies and the cold came a little later. Oh well, just meant I had two weeks of feeling a little under but not too bad. Thankfully Lila and Andrew weren't bothered by it too much because they both have performances this week.
Well let's start with the Monday fun. Lila was getting ready for regular dance when we got a call from our carpool friends saying that evening it was a competition night blitz so they didn't need to go. She was grateful for the break as she needed to be to Weber State for a quick staging of their dance for Scrooge. I drove her up to that and while I waited I watched Sing Thriller on Netflix. It was so cute! I had to text my family because when we were little a babysitter let Jake and I watch Thriller and he had nightmares for weeks. Then Lila watch the MJ Thriller video on our way home and then we watched the Sing one with the boys. I told Lila her and the dance team should make a short Thriller video during their party on Wednesday.
Ironically the next morning,Tuesday, October 29th at Pickleball the exercise class next door played Thriller and the lady across from me pulled out some classic MJ moves. It was hilarious. I cam home after pickleball worked out with Steve then I went to take a shower and could not get hot water. Steve went down and noticed the water heater was not lit and there was a little water on the ground. After some investigation he determined the water heater was dead. Ironically I had just mentioned a few weeks ago that we might need to get a new water heater, when we finished the basement we put in a second one but it went dead a few years ago so I thought it might just be time to hook up a second one as a backup but Steve has been interested in the hybrid ones so he wasn't for sure he wanted to do that but now that we were feeling the pressure to make a decision and buy a new one we decided the hybrid model might not be best for us as it is in the basement and it can be loud and makes it cooler because it pulls heat out of the air. . . yadyahd. Anyway Steve ran to Home Depot got a new one while Marcus was at piano lessons. I helped him get it downstairs and he started working on hooking it up while I drove Lila to dress rehearsal at Weber. When I got back the boys loaded up and headed to the Jazz game. Marcus had Jr Jazz tickets for that night. Unfortunately there was an event an Abravanel Hall that night too making traffic and parking crazy. And the line to get free hot dogs and drink was forever long and took them a whole quarter to get and when they got to the front they only had water, Marcus really wanted a soda. The Jazz also did not play very well. But the boys still had fun. It was stressful for Steve but he was a real trooper and I told him we have to have the meh, it was ok experiences to appreciate the, yeah that was good ones.
Lila had an early morning practice Wednesday and I could hear her up at 7am so I tapped Steve and asked him if the water heater was good for Lila to take a shower and he said no he needed to run to Home Depot to grab some gas line sealant. So got up and ran to Home Depot unfortunately it wasn't ready before Lila had to leave but she made the best of it. I dropped her off with a cooler full of yogurts for the Halloween party the dance team was having during 1st period (she forgot to have them do a Thriller dance during the party 😂).
Lila spent every night but Halloween up at Weber's Performing Art building rehearsing for Scrooge. Monday and Tuesdays rehearsals were a little rough. And she was expressing some frustration about the piece because people weren't coming to all the rehearsals and they had to respace because it is also the weekend for the Harvest Dance at Layton High so some of the girls opted to go to the dance and not perform. So Lila was frustrated and a little upset by the time I was taking her to Wednesdays rehearsals. I don't think it helped that I had to go in to assist with play practice last minute that day because one of the other Mom's got sick so I wasn't there to make sure she was ready and eat and pump her up. And she hadn't been able to take a shower because the hot water situation. Anyway, on the way there I told her she did not need to stay and practice bows. I told her I would come get her as soon as they were done performing their piece. She texted me at 7:20 saying they were done. Earlier than I thought because they didn't get done until 9:15 the night before but she stayed for the whole thing that night. Anyway, I hopped in the car and as I was driving up she asked if a couple of other girls could get a ride home and I said sure. She was in a better mood when I picked her up. She said things went better and she was glad to be coming home early. Hallelujah, I'll take it.
We finally made it to Thursday, October 31st. Halloween! Marcus had started showing signs of the cold but it wasn't slowing him down. Unfortunately he woke up coughing and really not feeling great. He decided to stay home for the morning and see how he felt a little later. We had talked about getting Andrew a little baby Yoda to go his Mandalorian costume but I never ordered one. I looked at Target where I originally saw one for a decent price and it was 25% off and I could pick it up in two hours. So Marcus stayed home watching Phineas and Ferb while we took Miles and Andrew to school in their costumes. Then we went to our pickleball league which was fun. I did really well in the first three games but we were also the longest game and I was not feeling great myself so by the 4th game I was really wiped. Ironically that game I ended up playing against Steve and he played with a gal named Judy and I was playing with her husband so it was a battle of the spouses. 😂 Steve took me to Target to pickup Andrew's baby yoda. Then I came home heated up apple cider and ordered Twisted Sugar cookies to take to Lila and her friends. We had been trying to think of something fun to do for them for lunch on Halloween and she really wanted to include her friend that has a gluten allergy and Twisted Sugar had gluten free cookies so we went for it. I dropped them off to Lila and she said her friends were so excited. Then I drove by the elementary school to drop off baby yoda for Andrew and party supplies for Marcus's class. I was supposed to help with his party but with him being sick they said they could find someone else to help, I think it ended up being Miles. Lila texted that there were a lot of leftover cookies and asked if I could pick her up from school. So around 2 I headed out to see if I could catch Andrew in the costume parade and then pickup Lila and it worked out great.
When I got home I put Marcus in the shower to see if he could steam out and get ready to go trick or treating. He realized at that point that he had missed the party and was sad. I told him it wasn't a big deal. He got to do the craft I was taking in and I brought him home a huge sugar cookie from Twisted Sugar as a treat and really he was fine with it. Then I ran to pickup Andrew and Miles. Marcus sent me the following text, cute boy!
Andrew came home and watched some Phineas and Ferb with him including a Halloween episode. Thankfully I had put chili in the crockpot for dinner and bought some cornbread pillsbury roll things that ended up being really yummy on the mummy dogs with the chili. Then we got ready to go trick or treating.
Andrew asked if he could go with his friend Dominic, we decided it would be best if Dominic came with us. So he came over and then we headed out. Miles wanted to meet up with Julie the other itern and the host family. I suggested they start walking towards us and we would start walking towards them and gave him an address we could meet up at but I think it got lost in translation so we ended up going down a street we wouldn't normally and didn't meet up with them. By the time they sent me an address of where they were we were on the opposite end. We tried to pick up the speed but the boys really wanted to hit some of their friend's houses we were passing and I couldn't say no and the line for the roller coaster was not very long when we got to it so we decided to wait, we've never done it.
We finally met up with the host Mom and the other Chinese teachers at the house with hot cocoa. At that point the boys got hot cocoa and were done trick or treating so we walked home and Miles went on with Julie and the other crew. The boys went downstairs to watch a short Halloween movie on the home theater. Then Lila's friend Macey came over and they watched The Quiet Place. Dominic and Andrew played for a bit while Marcus got to do Minecraft on the computer. Then we took Dominic home and put everyone to bed. It was a nice evening. 🎃






















































































